| Sometimes men have no problem picking up | | | | money makes all of the difference. |
| women, yet they can't seem to get a girlfriend | | | | 3. Some women equate how much you spend on |
| that's interested in them for who they are. Sure, | | | | gifts or a date to be a signal of how committed |
| it seems like these women are interested at first, | | | | you are to the relationship. This is where the |
| but eventually you realize that they only want to | | | | Silver, Gold, and Platinum wedding anniversaries |
| go out when it's somewhere fancy and expensive | | | | stems from. |
| and you're picking up the tab. | | | | The longer you have been together, the more |
| It can be disheartening when it seems like every | | | | expensive the metal signifying the value of your |
| woman out there is looking to get their hands into | | | | relationship. As such, spending a lot of money on |
| your pocket book. Particularly if you're just trying | | | | dates and gifts now will scare these women |
| to look for a serious relationship with someone | | | | away, because they will think that you are |
| who genuinely likes you. Eventually it begins to | | | | attributing to them the commitment they would |
| feel like every woman out there is a gold-digger | | | | expect from a husband of ten or twenty-five |
| and it's not worth bothering with. | | | | years. |
| The trouble is, you may have been sending out | | | | 4. By spending a lot of money on gifts and dates |
| negative signals that attract these types of | | | | at the beginning of a relationship you set the |
| women. One of the most common problems is | | | | stage for an extravagant relationship where |
| that men feel that they need to make | | | | money is no issue. Some women will believe that |
| prospective girlfriends aware that they would be | | | | this is impractical and, whether you have lots of |
| an excellent provider. As such, they invite women | | | | money or not, will always worry about your |
| to expensive restaurants or buy them expensive | | | | eventual bankruptcy from over spending. |
| gifts. When they date women they act like | | | | Women don't want to marry someone who is |
| financial burdens are a thing of the imagination. | | | | ready to empty their life savings at the drop of a |
| The problem with this approach, other than | | | | hat, because that leaves nothing for the future. |
| causing you to go broke every time you meet a | | | | 5. Women can sense dishonesty and inconsistency |
| new woman, is that you begin to attract only | | | | in your personality. If you are spending a lot of |
| women who are interested in your pocketbook | | | | money, even though you don't have a lot to begin |
| instead of your personality. In fact, a lot of | | | | with, you will send her subconscious signals that |
| women out there that are not interested in your | | | | you are trying to be a different person than you |
| money, the very women you are looking for, will | | | | really are. |
| become uninterested in you when you buy them | | | | This will make her hesitant to be your girlfriend, |
| expensive things. This loss of interest can happen | | | | because she may not know exactly what you |
| for several reasons; | | | | are being dishonest about and will worry that she |
| 1. When a man offers to buy everything for a | | | | cannot trust you. |
| lady it is obvious that he is trying to impress her. | | | | The best way to avoid Gold-diggers and get the |
| A normal woman might wonder why you're trying | | | | girlfriend of your dreams is to stop spending so |
| so hard to impress her and begin to think that | | | | much money when you are picking up women. |
| there must be something wrong with you that | | | | You don't need to empty out your bank accounts |
| you're compensating for. | | | | to get girls to like you, because the type of |
| This will make her hesitant to be with you, | | | | woman you are trying to attract will be interested |
| because she'll keep imagining something is wrong | | | | in your personality. |
| and the more money you spend on her, the | | | | This isn't to say that you cannot pay for dates or |
| worse she will think it is. | | | | that you should not buy them presents. Just do |
| 2. Some men flaunt their money, because they | | | | things a little more cost effectively. Not only will |
| genuinely have a lot of money and believe that it | | | | you avoid Gold-diggers and stop scaring away |
| will raise their status or make them a better | | | | normal women, but you're bank account will be a |
| person. Normal women will be more interested in | | | | little bit less empty and that's something we can |
| who you are than how much you make and they | | | | all appreciate. |
| will not want to date someone who feels that | | | | |