Shirley Sherrod Discovered Race Definitely Matters When Negotiating and You're Always Negotiating

Shirley Sherrod was caught in a racial firestorm,later proven to be wrong, be 'big enough' to admit
partially because she's Black, and partially becauseyour mistake sooner than later, and apologize
race relations are exploited by some people in thequickly, to the person, or those that you've
U.S. when negotiating. In the case of Shirleyimpugned.
Sherrod, she was an innocent bystander,3. With reverse racism being such a 'touchy point'
slandered.of contention for some people in the U.S., there's
Twenty-four years ago, Shirley Sherrod's job wasa faction in the country that will seek to exploit
to assist farmers in securing services that wouldrace, anytime they have the opportunity. When
lead to avoiding foreclosure on their farms. Duringyou negotiate, be aware of this fact.
that time, Shirley Sherrod made a presentation to4. Anyone can be portrayed as a 'Shirley Sherrod'.
an organization. In her presentation, she related aTherefore, no matter where you are and what
story of her encounter with a particular whiteyou do, even when you don't consider yourself as
farmer that was condescending to her. Shesuch, remember, you're always negotiating.
stated, initially she was not going to lend her 'full'Where race relations are concerned in
effort to assisting this farmer, but after reflectingnegotiations, there'll be many 'teachable moments',
upon her negative thoughts, she decided to assistfrom which to learn. As you encounter negotiation
him with her full support, anyway. She did so,situations in life, related to race, take note and
because she realized the need for assistancelearn from them. In so doing, you'll find that you'll
comes in all colors and in all ethnicities. Moreover,become more knowledgeable and informed about
she reflected, it was the right thing to do.the way others think... and everything will be right
That was the message she conveyed to thewith the world. Always remember, you're always
audience. What Shirley Sherrod didn't count onnegotiating.
was the fact that her information and eventualThe Negotiation Tips Are...
good thoughts and name would be turned against· No matter what your vocation, you're always
her, twenty-four years after she made herselling and marketing yourself. In so doing, when
presentation. She forgot, "you're alwaysnegotiating, understand the environment you're in
negotiating'.and the manner in which others might process
Shirley Sherrod's character was one of assistinginformation about you. Consider the role race may
her fellow man. When you understand someone'splay in their decision making process.
character, you can negotiate with them based on· Even when people within one race negotiate
their character. By understanding their character,with others of the same race, race matters. It
you have an understanding as to how they'rematters, because there'll be segments in the race
likely to react in certain situations. In Shirleythat distinguish itself from other segments and
Sherrod's situation, once her character wasthus will react differently to different thoughts,
explored, it was discovered that she'd workedsuggestions, and ideas. So, in order to achieve
ceaselessly to assist people of all ethnicities.successful outcomes to negotiations, you have to
Had the rush to judge Shirley Sherrod not beenunderstand the source of motivation required to
done in such haste, by everyone involved (White'move that person to action'. Don't assume he's
House, NAACP, U.S. Agriculture Department, thelike everyone else in the race and apply a broad
U.S. Media), not to say anything about those thatstroke to him in applying your negotiation
initiated the victimization, it would have beenstrategies and tactics.
discovered that she possessed a low likelihood of· When negotiating, don't be too quick to judge
committing such accused acts.someone when exploring accounts of their past
What 'teachable moments' are rooted in thisbehavior, good or bad. Gather the appropriate
situation?information, consider the source of the
1. Never be too quick to accept information asinformation and vet the information before
pure fact and acting upon it, without properattempting to provide solutions to correct it. Don't
vetting.be made to appear foolish due to haste.
2. If you're quick to 'rush to judgment' and you'reTo see video, click link below.