Effective Workplace Relationships - External Influences

When managers work closely with teamthe team.
members, the exciting relationship that builds isThis is usually caused by fear and other emotions,
value-creating on both sides. Greater productivitylike jealousy or frustration and more.
and performance being the most likely outcomesManagers need to watch for the reluctance of
for the manager, whilst career development andindividuals to get more involved. By ensuring that
a much better working experience for aneveryone in the team gets the same treatment,
employee - just two examples for each that canthis issue usually resolves itself.
come from working well together.Other Line Managers
There are challenges enough for those two toManagers are frequently encouraged to work in
get together productively, with both sides needingsome bizarre ways by their colleagues, who might
to have the intention to succeed in how theyhave experiences that are set in quite different
interact, as well as being able to work to comecircumstances and with different people and
closer together to create the right environment.situations involved.
That said, theirs will not be the only influencesManagers need to understand that they will
that will come to bear, despite this seeminglycreate relationships best, when they are being at
being a one-to-one relationship. We are all shapedtheir most authentic with themselves and not feel
by our whole environment and it's likely that theseobliged to 'do it their way'.
'external' influences will need consideration and theBeing able to stand up and develop their own
working relationship progresses.strategies takes courage and, from time to time,
So, just who could be implicated in how twothe occasional failure. this is all part of
people interact, apart from those individualsmanagement self-development and is a very
themselves? Here are some possibilities:-worthwhile exercise!
Family and Friends
This can present some of the most difficultExternal Business Contacts
challenges.There may be times where the impact of other
In such cases, employees can be influenced intobusiness contacts can affect the way that
working in certain ways by others who, variously,managers get on with their team.
may not have the full picture; will have had verySometimes such extraneous influences can be
different work experiences; and ultimately, just behard to pick up on and adjust in favor of your
unwilling to go half way to work well with otherown activities.
people, especially managers who are trying hardThe key here is to be good at creating good
to make things work better.working relationships with all of your people, all of
Managers need to acknowledge such pressuresthe time, so that anyone affected by external
and ensure that whatever they do to makeinfluencers can see that the 'home way' is best
workplace relationships better, the externaland then they are likely to gradually fall in line.
influences can be very robust. It's not to give upThese are a few of the possibilities - and there
on at all, indeed these workplace experiencesmay be more. The key element here is to
might be a breath of fresh air to the person theyremember that whilst two individuals might wish
are trying to be creative with. It might take time.to create a much more positive working
Having a consistent approach with all teamrelationship, there will be underlying and sometimes
members will help, so that those facing thiseven unconscious thought processes that can
particular issue will be encouraged to overcometake time to overcome.
other prejudices, to dig in and take the risk ofGreat working relationships are hugely valuable,
trying on better working relationships withnot just to a manager who can get more out of
supervisors or managers.their team, but, when working well, to each single
Other Colleaguesindividual who is on the other side of the desk, in
When two individuals are working together to buildthe personal reward and development, not to
a better working relationship, this can bemention exciting and motivating work, that they
influenced by the shared perceptions of others incan experience too.