| Some men say that they feel the woman might | | | | relationships is to fulfill your dream. |
| lead to temptation with no control whatsoever | | | | Now everyone deals with each other depending |
| and they will just sneak around so they won't get | | | | on the relationship. |
| caught. Now some women can't be honest with | | | | Remember: you can't force someone to love you |
| their loved ones and is scared to be real with their | | | | back no matter what you think and you should |
| man 100%. | | | | always keep your options open! |
| It usually starts off with the cheating behind the | | | | Now why do men usually play the one's that they |
| mans back because they become involved in too | | | | love? The same reasons why women do it. |
| deep with someone else and have no choice but | | | | (out of spite) because some men have it in the |
| to keep doing what they're doing because once | | | | back of their minds that if their women do it, |
| you lie, you have to keep lying to make yourself | | | | they have to come back harder and stronger by |
| look good. | | | | paying us back without a care and not worrying |
| I asked a number of women questions about | | | | about the woman's feelings whatsoever! |
| how they feel about playing the one's they love | | | | Now some men who choose to have a Plan B will |
| and I've heard different reasons why you should | | | | usually parade Plan B around town knowing that |
| have a Plan B from other women and they have | | | | he has main girl or woman or whatever they |
| told me stories on their relationships and why | | | | want to call it, because Plan A, might not treat |
| they prefer to have someone else on the side | | | | him right or fulfill his needs so he might just |
| and they also said just in case her man decides to | | | | choose to have another woman on the side |
| up and leave them because some men leave | | | | because you never know who will stay whether |
| without saying goodbye or giving any closure so | | | | its Plan A or Plan B. |
| you must have a Plan B on the side just in case | | | | But from a man's point of view he quoted: Would |
| Plan A leaves. | | | | you drive a car without a spare tire? |
| In some cases it is true because when some | | | | But in reality, some choose to have a whole set |
| people get involved in relationships and they're | | | | of tires as a back up and you should always |
| always together, they tend to get sick of each | | | | secure your situation so you'll need a fall back just |
| other and eventually somewhere down the line, | | | | in case one works out and the other one doesn't. |
| they grow apart. So either way, the woman | | | | However, this is what you would call the player |
| decides to find someone else on the side which is | | | | status. |
| Plan B and then Plan B starts to treat her better | | | | For instance as an example: No one wants |
| and is always there to pick her back up when she | | | | chicken every night for dinner or some just want |
| falls and have an understanding of one another | | | | Filet mignon as a change or a switch up. |
| and if it all works out, then Plan B will be her king. | | | | Although, some men cheat because they might |
| However, I feel that you should try to work | | | | think that the woman is cheating behind their |
| things out if there is trouble in paradise and | | | | backs. simple as that! |
| everything will usually work its way out. | | | | Another man has told me that it's in their DNA to |
| I've been in a relationship before and I did have a | | | | have and keep a woman on the side just in case, |
| Plan B and the reason for all of that was because | | | | it's just that it really is. so ther'es no control over |
| the man I was with was very disrespectful and | | | | that because it is truly by nature that a man |
| had no understanding whatsoever. I eventually left | | | | should have another woman on the side just in |
| him for Plan B, because the man (Plan B) I started | | | | case the main chick might stress them out to a |
| to date treated me like gold. | | | | point where they have to look elsewhere but that |
| However, Plan B and I are still together till this | | | | doesn't mean that they don't love that woman.it's |
| day, it's been 6 years already. | | | | just that they are really protecting their hearts. |
| Now, some women do it for a sense of security | | | | But when it comes to men and women playing |
| just in case. Although, they have the one's who | | | | the one's that they love: Will they stop doing what |
| just don't care without having a Plan B. | | | | they're doing or will they continue to have an |
| "They just do it, just to do it," without a care for | | | | undercover lover aside from the main real thing |
| the other person's feelings whatsoever and some | | | | or is it because they choose to just protect their |
| don't care if they get caught. | | | | heart from crumbling into pieces. |
| But why do women play the one's they love? | | | | Newsflash: a broken heart can kill you faster than |
| That's a question that some women can't even | | | | a bullet! And that's a fact cause some people |
| answer themselves. | | | | never bounce back from a broken heart and |
| But most say, it's because most men usually | | | | some fall into a state of depression which you |
| have another woman on the side, so why can't | | | | don't want and that's real. |
| they have a man on the side as well? | | | | To the men and women out there: Always stay |
| To all the ladies and gentlemen out there that's in | | | | happy and don't let anyone stress you out no |
| a relationship. | | | | matter what. |
| Know this: You can pick and choose who you | | | | And last, but not least: always stay true to |
| love, but you can't pick and choose who will love | | | | yourselves! |
| you back. The part of the happiness in | | | | |