Appalachia the truth of what is really here

This is something I have pondered for quitethe shelf of my mind with the rest of my
sometime now..should I write this or let it remaindreams I let die. You now are wondering why I
an illusion in my mind. I live in Eastern Kentuckystay, how do you change what you have been
most of you have probably seen theaccustomed to? is it me or my need to be more
documentaries on this part of the nation andthan what I am.There are desires in my soul  to
wondered if this is reality or a way to get theirhave what I know are no way attainable in these
"good" story. Sadly I live in this dire place ofhills of deep sorrow and tourment.  Life calls out
economic and social poverty..for me I see bothto me and I fall to my knees and ask why have I
sides I hold a bachelor in Sociology, therefore ibeen deserted and left to ask the question why
know and understand what lies beneath theseme.. I was once told "what if" was the hardest
beautiful hills and wavy blue-grass. "Outsiders"question to answer, now with out a doubt I have
believe in some way the families here choose tocome to fully understand why that phrase is so
live this way..now don't get bent out of shape..painful to navigate through the mind. one choice
some do think this is what life really is. As for mewithin us all can set our destiny onto the path of
I grew up in Ohio, I have lived in manyhappiness or the one to despair.
places..none as lonely, impoverished and hid awayAlone I sit on my porch the night is so quiet that
from the "real world" as it is here in Appalachia.only the sound of your heart and thee
While pursuing my degree I assumed I would endoccasionally passing vehicle is all you hear. Times
up in L.A., Boston or somewhere that offered melike these is when I reflect most on what I have
the chance to be  noticed... as a person for mymissed and is still searching deep within myself to
individuality or at least my creativefind. Quiet is welcomed at times but not when it is
intelligence...again I am not saying that a life likeall you have. Without culture and economic
that is not possible here..just in the reality ofstimulus you are lacking what makes this country
things it is highly unlikely.  I guess you could say Iso diverse. Being in Appalachia has taken my
live by thee old catch 22.. In body I am heredreams like a succubus..it takes and takes with
physically.. but in mind and imagination I am manynothing to offer in return, except the things that
miles away.will drive you insane, such as poverty, the lack of
Poverty here is among the highest in the nation.intellectual conversations "backwoods" teaching to
the prescription pill drug abuse here is anbe precise. How does someone like me who
epidemic   .This is hidden America.. The highknows they are alien to this kind of life survive
school drop-out rate is staggering, this is just thehere and make the best of it.. you don't, you
tip of what Appalachia really is. Children here forponder every second of the day how to get
generations have been "bred" to believe andout..and never look back.
adhere to the teachings of this is what your lifeDestined to be in a place that you have nothing in
was meant to be. I have seen many kids withcommon with. Where you are the outsider as
the potential to be so much more than theirpeople look and stare and say "she thinks her
parents and grandparents were...but lay theireducation makes her better than us" when in
dreams by the way-side..to do what has beenreality I just want to fit in and yet I know I
instilled in them what life really is.  In these prettynever will. Then again maybe deep down fitting in
green hills lays a dark secret that is kept wellwould mean I have come to agree, or at the
hidden..the truth of what  the kids and familiesvery least except their beliefs...and to even
of  Appalachia is all  about.  In some way Ipretend that is more than I am willing to consider
guess the old addage out of sight out of mind isfor any length of time.
the nation's motto to this problem.. If you can notMadness is what I feel when I wake up and
see it then it must not exist.now back to me anddiscover that once again I am here, and yet my
my story... I feel privilidged to have seen bothhunger to be somewhere else is crippled by the
sides of America from the educated to thosefact that financially I am unable to change this. Oh
who are illiterate (yes) Literacy is a big problemto know what it is to be set free from such a
here in Appalachia.  Though if you would havemiserable existence.. here to exist is all you can
asked me would I choose to live here my answerachieve..merely be what you always tried to
would be NO. It appears I fell in an abyss and canescape. Shall I live forever in my thoughts of
not find the opening to get out. I feel trapped likeother places..far away places full of rainbows and
the walls of life are beginning to suffocate me.. Ifaeiries..or is this the life that somehow was
wish I could find my freedom path.. not sure whatchosen for me. Destiny is at times cruel to those
that is but I know that this is not it.  Have youwho ponder on these questions too long, it feeds
ever stared out in space and wondered how didoff the needs of individuals who lust after worldly
you get to the point in your life where you seempossessions.
to have left all of who you are behind ? Well thatAppalachia In my opinion is one of the hardest
is about the sum of it here.. My best friend onceplaces to raise a family.. everyday is a struggle to
said "Appalachia is hell we live here and we aresurvive, here people are still without running
sentenced for eternity".  water,some have no chance to ever better
The wind seems to call me through the trees latethemselves. And those who society has all but
at night.. to tell me that my time is now toforgotten may die at an early age.." Central
change what has been inside me wanting toAppalachia has the shortest life span in the nation."
escape for many years.. The chance to live and"20/20" By KETURAH GRAY
be who I know I really am and not a shell of myFeb. 13, 2009
former being. The inner voice manifests it's selfThe above article is based solely on my opinion of
when the world is dark, cold and still. Shall I listenwhat I see Appalachia as.
or excuse it as just another dream to be put on